Pella Christian girls tennis players Reagan DeVries and Addie Van Arendonk discuss the Eagles’ 7-0 start to the spring and how the entire team has stepped up to help them remain undefeated. Pella Christian girls basketball junior Addie Van Arendonk discusses the Eagles 36-21 victory over Newton Tuesday night. It is a priority for CBC to create products that are accessible to all in Canada including people with visual Closed Captioning and Described Video is available for many CBC shows offered on CBC Gem Things you buy through our links may earn Vox Media a commission many of the stories shared an unusual frankness The current raft of stories is not interested in exalted They’re stories about exertion and shortcomings This moment in motherhood stories is interested in authenticity is about posing questions: can you be a mother and your own person then how exactly can you tell a story about motherhood How can you escape the narrative pitfalls of a protagonist whose life is defined by boring repetition How can you depict something that feels simultaneously mundane and otherworldly unsatisfying answers to the question of what motherhood feels like But when you tell a motherhood story onscreen the question is never “what does the story of motherhood look like,” because nearly all of the stories are the same The scenes are familiar: the stroller that careens out of control often inside or in the vicinity of her car The child who says an unfathomably cruel thing and then walks away without flinching too: the sleeplessness and the physicality of early motherhood the way your body belongs to someone other than yourself joyful transitions between the child you know at home and the child out in the world The familiarity of these moments represent the slowly hardening tropes of a genre much like crime stories are full of repeating well-worn images of dead bodies and witness interrogations the thing that thrills me and surprises me about so many of these onscreen stories about motherhood and is more about the different ways to present them the different forms and frames these stories are taking the best stories about motherhood onscreen have reached beyond the important but underwhelming act of simple representation there are stories about what it feels like to be a mother that combine an impulse toward realism with a distancing lens through formal experimentation or genre hybridity And those works — the ones that combine verisimilitude with artistic transformation — are the ones that arguably feel the most representative They’re the ones that best speak to the transformative an experience that is both transcendental and banal Pamela Adlon’s Better Things is one model for this, a fragmentary, mood-driven meandering that’s driven more by feeling than plot. (In this sense, it most directly echoes much of the motherhood genre in book form, which Paskin describes as “discursive and epigrammatic,” with “short sections bursts of paragraphs.”) The show’s protagonist is caught between the demands of her aging mother and her three teen and preteen daughters And although Sam does not apologize for being her own person the questions of how much she’s allowed to need and how much of the story can actually be hers burble perpetually underneath the show’s spoken concerns like an underground spring of constant existential uncertainty It’s a question gorgeously enacted in the way Better Things is told — the show’s splintered disconnected stories are one way to represent a daily grind without actually replicating the sensation of boredom the scattered bits and pieces of Better Things feel like a representative glimpse into Sam’s life where all the little pieces feel enormous in the moment and then disappear completely The show’s short episodes bear more than a little resemblance to the tone and structure of Louie (no surprise given his extensive involvement with the show’s first two seasons) and it breaks my heart to think of how thoroughly C.K.’s creative eye is interwoven with the show which is in no doubt largely thanks to him is so astonishingly well suited to Adlon’s fictional preoccupations the various pieces of story and observation and memoir revolved around C.K. with himself as the self-deprecating but ever-present center the form becomes its own commentary on the subject When you watch a whole slew of these onscreen motherhood stories figure out how to harness the genre to something else It’s as though looking at the thing too directly fails to capture the breadth and immensity and weird stultifying minutiae of it This is the problem of both Sharon Horgan’s Motherland and Sarah Scheller and Alison Bell’s The Letdown two recent series that lean into the constant nervy frayed edges of parenting Motherland’s opening episode depiction of a woman just trying to get some child care so she can go to her job is so intense that I could hardly watch it without breaking into hives barely contained energy to the role that exhausted me even as I understood that its point was to exhaust me it didn’t matter that it was effective; the impact was still my blinding exhaustion There’s merit in something that shows you your experiences are not unique your desperation is not because of your personal failures But watching these shows does not feel revelatory most thoughtful of these onscreen stories have all looked at motherhood And they’ve all looked wildly different from one another Ali Wong’s comedy special uses stand-up as a delivery mechanism palpable fury about the truths of what happens to women’s bodies inside the guise of a joke Jane the Virgin carefully weaves the emotional authenticity of new motherhood into its high-keyed the currently running HBO documentary about Serena Williams’s return to tennis after pregnancy offhandedly slips a few telling shots into its otherwise gauzy soft-focus approach: Serena hurriedly unstrapping her pumping bra and rushing onto the court; Serena succinctly explaining that if she hadn’t advocated for herself Being Serena could just be an unremarkable if her maternity were not also part of the story But the recurrent theme of her new motherhood gives the otherwise conventional series a different edginess turns it into a more loaded and original story about ambition and identity initially looks like an exception to the rule that motherhood needs a mediating framework that looking at the naked reality of the experience is too boring and intense and surreal and dissociative and inescapable and the presence of another mediating genre doesn’t become clear until the ending has all the hallmarks of the genre: her bodily ruination her sweaty desperate sprint up a flight of stairs to get her son to school while hauling her infant in a car seat Theron’s able to summon a look on her face that suggests she’s been transported to a lonely even as she’s also buried in a pile of children The film’s promotional trailers all focus on this element of the movie I did not need to be re-submerged in an un-interpretive even though I think the best way to watch the film is if you’re “spoiled” going into it and understand from the beginning that its motherhood-as-genre identity is set inside another kind of story ultimately turns out to be a postpartum dissociative disorder delusion Its roots are in the stories of selkies and mermaids and in Mary Poppins But rather than showing up to help the children or to be a love object for a worthy prince Tully appears to Marlo once more so that she can say good-bye and Marlo bemoans the youth she’s lost and the possibilities that are now gone this is the gift Marlo gives her children so that they can grow up in a “circle of safety.” although it took me a while to figure out why the movie hit me so hard what helped it slip past my critical defenses and wallop my psyche so thoroughly (I’m usually a TV critic who works from home often in the short slices of the day when my children are asleep I worried for a bit that my love for Tully was entirely thanks to the rebellious pleasure of having left the house to see a movie by myself.) But I slowly realized that what had so taken me aback was that combination of the new mother story with a fairy-tale wish fulfillment hopeful beauty — of telling a fairy tale where the powerful mystical figure arrives to save And then there’s the simultaneous knowledge that it is a fairy tale she’s a symptom of something gone terribly wrong That the only person who can save Marlo is herself That there isn’t really “saving,” in any true sense of the word What Tully does so well is not only represent what motherhood looks like like a Donne poem about the nature of existence come to life and then incongruously coated with saliva and sweet potatoes What I need from these stories is for them to be more than perfectly reflective I don’t need them to just be gritty (even this word is wrong; motherhood is soggy and sticky but for that sensory-based realism to also grasp after the big holy-shit-I-made-a-new-person-ness of it all It’s so hard to hold both of those things at once But this is why stories about motherhood are compelling and why I want to watch more and more of them Password must be at least 8 characters and contain: you’ll receive occasional updates and offers from New York Pella Christian senior three-sport athlete Caleb Van Arendonk has signed his national letter of intent to continue his academic and baseball careers at Central College next year Van Arendonk recorded a .351 batting average a .448 on-base percentage and 0.561 slugging percentage Helping lead Pella Christian to their first appearance at the State Tournament since 1994 this past summer Van Arendonk said that the coaching staff at Central was a big reason he chose to stay close to home “I think they’re gonna be building something really special and I just want to be a part of that And also another thing is that it’s good to have the college search off my shoulders so now I can be focused on basketball and also my senior baseball season.” Hear more from Caleb Van Arendonk about his signing with Central on Today’s Lely Radio Sports Page Pella Christian girls tennis player Sydney Van Arendonk is undefeated in singles play so far in 2023 She joins this week’s Radio Sports Page to talk about her start to the season her future plans to attend the University of Iowa Pella Christian senior Caleb Van Arendonk joins us on Today’s Lely Radio Sports Page to discuss signing his national letter of intent to continue his academic and baseball careers at Central College next year The Pella Christian girls tennis team will be represented at the State Singles and Doubles Tennis Tournament later this month as Katy Roose and Sydney Van Arendonk won the Doubles Championship at the Pella Christian Individual State Qualifier on Wednesday Roose and Van Arendonk were dominant throughout the day winning the doubles title while never dropping more than three games in a match 6-1 first-round win over Pella’s Bryn Higginbotham and Mallory Westerkamp before defeating Danique Dobbe and Kayden Wingfield of Red Oak 6-1 Roose and Van Arendonk advanced to the championship match with a 6-1 6-3 semifinal win over Ballard’s Kiley Calvert and Gracie Ross the seniors knocked of Pella’s Alloree Else and Lily VanDusseldorp 6-0 The Eagles duo of Reagan DeVries and Rachael Lanferman won their first-round match against Sophie Henderson and Kenly Shilling 6-0 6-3 to Red Oak’s Merced Ramirez and Tessa Rolenc Claire Vander Molen lost in the first round with a 6-2 6-4 loss to Claire Smock of Pella and Laurey Johnson’s day ended with a first-round loss to Ballard’s Vanessa Nop 6-1 Find full results from the Individual Regional at Pella Christian here. Roose and Van Arendonk will compete in the Class 1A State Singles and Doubles Tennis Tournament May 26th-27th in Waterloo at Byrnes Park Tennis Center as they will host the first and semifinal rounds of the Class 1A Regional Team Tournament on Saturday While last week’s numbers don’t jump off the page Pella Christian’s Caleb Van Arendonk had one of his most efficient games for the Eagles last Friday The senior picked apart the  Eddyville-Blakesburg-Fremont defense in a 56-38 victory and Tyler Crabb broke down the lead-up to Caleb’s dominant performance on this week’s player profile The Pella Christian soccer teams swept a doubleheader at Oskaloosa Tuesday night with the girls winning the opener 3-0 and the boys following with a 4-1 victory the Eagle girls took control of the game in the first half and never looked back Claire Winn-Fogle got the scoring started early in the first half using an assist from Tori Van Zee in the game’s fifth minute to beat the Indians defense for the first goal Ema Zula then found Karis Fikkert in the box in the 33rd minute and Fikkert snuck the ball past the Oskaloosa goalie to push Pella Christian’s first half advantage to 2-0 The Eagles added the finishing touches on the win in the 58th minute when Esther Ford crossed the ball into the box and connected with Hattie Fancher who found the back of the net to push PC to 8-6 overall on the season and 2-3 in Little Hawkeye Conference play the Pella Christian boys applied pressure on the Indians defense throughout the night Nathan Brouwer’s goal on a free kick in the 18th minute gave the Eagles the early lead Junior Ethan Van Arendonk took over the game in the second half recording a hat trick in the final 40 minutes to secure the win Van Arendonk used a long feed from Elias Keegan to beat the goal and push Pella Christian’s advantage to 2-0 Camden Parker then found Van Arendonk in the box in the 64th minute and the junior’s shot bounced off the post and the goalie into the goal for his second score of the night Oskaloosa added their lone goal of the night in the 77th minute but Van Arendonk completed the hat trick two minutes later when he beat the goalie on an assist from Keegan Juffer The victory pushed PC’s record to 7-6 overall and 2-3 in conference play The Eagles soccer teams wrap up regular season action Friday night with a road doubleheader at Van Meter The girls game is set to start at 4:30 pm and the boys contest follows at approximately 6:15 pm Pella Christian boys soccer players Ethan Van Arendonk and Camden Parker joined Tyler Crabb on this week’s Radio Sports Page to talk about the Eagles’ and their seasons thus far and their goals as the season winds down The Pella Christian basketball teams wrapped up competition for 2023 Thursday night sweeping  Newton in a Little Hawkeye Conference doubleheader heard live on 92.1 KRLS Stifling defense and a career night from sophomore Addie Van Arendonk propelled the Eagle girls to a 51-48 win over the Cardinals in the opening game of the twinbill Pella Christian forced Newton to commit 17 first half turnovers as they built up a 22-16 lead at halftime The Eagles started to pull away in the third quarter but the Cardinals battled back to pull within one late in the fourth quarter Despite missing multiple late game free throws Pella Christian’ defense and rebounding came through in the big moments to sneak out the three point victory Van Arendonk poured in a career high 18 points to lead all scorers in the game while Rachel Kacmarynski added 11 points in the win Having battled through some illness this week head coach Brendan Foughty said that he was proud of how his team handled the adversity “I’m really just proud of our kids for finding a way to grit through a really tough week play an ugly basketball game where to be honest with you we had a late lead and we kind of lost our composure a little bit in the fourth quarter but found a way to win and that’s what this team has to do is find ways to win.” the Eagle boys had nine players record points in a 69-48 win to complete the sweep against Newton Pella Christian led 16-12 after the opening quarter and extended the lead to 36-23 at halftime as Josiah Vos banked in a buzzer beating three entering the intermission Newton trimmed the deficit to 46-34 heading into the final quarter but the Eagles blew the game open in the fourth outscoring the Cardinals 23-14 to cruise to the 21-point victory Dane Geetings was the lone Eagle to reach double figures with 22 points while Isaiah Breems recorded nine points in the win The Pella Christian girls improved to 3-6 overall and 1-2 in the conference while the boys improved to 5-2 overall and 2-1 in the league Both teams are off until after Christmas break returning to action with another conference doubleheader at Pella on Friday Recent Pella Christian graduates Katy Roose and Sydney Van Arendonk wrapped up their athletic careers this past weekend taking second place at the Class 1A Individual Doubles State Tournament Roose and Van Arendonk join this week’s Radio Sports page to talk about the experience and what it meant to finish their high school careers on such a high note A new taskforce is set to rid the country of "pedantic and loopy" consent regulations - but a Rotorua builder warns throwing out the rules could see more people end up in court Local Government Minister Paula Bennett has announced a new Rules Reduction Taskforce would work in with local government to ease property owner and council frustration "We've seen rules and regulations brought in over decades that were well intentioned but end up being confusing onerous and costly while failing to deliver any real benefit for the property owner or the wider public," Mrs Bennett said Building and trade experts would also be brought in as consultants on the taskforce "Anyone doing building work knows just how frustrating and costly the bureaucracy can get," Mrs Bennett said tradespeople and businesses on rules and regulations that are crying out for sensible change." Adrie van Arendonk of Arendonk Builders said rules and regulations were necessary to protect the industry especially in the wake of the Christchurch earthquakes but it's for the protection of everybody." Builders and the council had to be careful of exposing themselves to litigation If something goes wrong it goes to the courts and people start suing each other." some rules still proved costly and unnecessary "We've submitted permits and then all of a sudden they change the building codes and your permit becomes invalid and you have to reapply." The Taskforce would be taking public submissions and a website would be set up where people could share examples of ridiculous rules they had come up against "We have rules dictating all sorts of weird and wonderful things from signage over cake stalls to where your shower curtains need to be positioned," Mrs Bennett said One property owner who was trying to replace a 130-year-old fence faced buying or leasing the land it was on because it was on a scenic reserve "While there's always a degree of rationale behind these rules the Taskforce will be charged with identifying what should stay and what should go so people can get on with the job of building renovating or event planning without have to wade through a morass of unnecessary rules," Mrs Bennett said The Taskforce will be up and running in October