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By using our site, you acknowledge that you have read and understood our Privacy Policy & Terms of Service Please select what you would like included for printing: Copy the text below and then paste that into your favorite email application Betty grew up in Kaukauna and married Carl Bruehl on Valentine's Day they made their home in Kaukauna and raised three children in the house where she lived until her passing They were fortunate enough to celebrate 65 years of marriage before Carl passed away on November 6 Betty worked for many years at the former Bohl & Maeser Shoe Store in downtown Appleton where she especially enjoyed fitting babies with their first pair of shoes She and Carl enjoyed 30 years of summers at their cottage on the Oconto River near Chute Pond and several winters in Gulf Shores she enjoyed a good shopping trip — which usually included stopping for lunch — and socializing and playing cards with her many friends and cousins Betty was an excellent baker and loved to share what she made with others Betty is survived by her children: Kathleen Schubring Little Chute; grandchildren: Amy (Lee) Johanek Sara Schubring and Cory (Jennifer) Schubring; Jason (Anne) Bruehl and Justin Bruehl; Elizabeth (special friend Rob Wendel) Bestul Eric (Mandy) Bestul and Ethan (special friend Marianne Greseth) Bestul; five great-grandchildren and two more on the way; sisters-in-law: Marion Grosser Betty was preceded in death by her parents Mildred Maley; brothers: Daniel Maley and Robert Maley son-in-law Gary Schubring; brothers-in-law: Jerome Bruehl The memorial mass for Betty will be held at 11:00 a.m Kaukauna with Father Tom Pomeroy officiating Friends will be received at the church from 9:00 a.m a memorial is being established in her name Online condolences can be expressed at www.wichmannfargo.com The family wishes to thank the many wonderful staff members on the cardiac floor at Appleton Medical Center as well as Betty's long-time primary care physician and the Affinity Clinic staff in Little Chute for their care of her over the years Enter your phone number above to have directions sent via text This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply Service map data © OpenStreetMap contributors Saunders’ broker Ed Bruehl  is a straight shooter when it comes to answering your questions about the Hamptons real estate market He tells THE DAILY about his unconventional and refreshing approach to navigating buying and selling in one of the world’s most desirable locations Subscribe to our newsletter and follow us on Facebook and Instagram to stay up to date on all the latest fashion news and juicy industry gossip Eddie Roche is the Chief Content Officer of The Daily Front Row/Daily Summer/Daily Hollywood @eddie2275 on Instagram document.getElementById("comment").setAttribute( "id" "aa6a613f171e94be8dbbef8d8db5a742" );document.getElementById("d628b68082").setAttribute( "id" and website in this browser for the next time I comment GET OUR HAUTEST STORIES DELIVERED TO YOUR INBOX We have the address for the funeral home & the family on file If you're not happy with your card we'll send a replacement or refund your money Judith Gail "Judy" Greenhaw, age 74 of Purcell, passed away Tuesday, May 13, 2014 after an extended illness. 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View Obituary & Service Information The family of Judy Greenhaw created this Life Tributes page to make it easy to share your memories Made with love by funeralOne Please enable JS and disable any ad blocker The luxury townhome development is slated for completion in fall 2023 and is located in the heart of the Hamptons with 17 of the 34 townhomes under contract “The success of this project is directly attributable to the developer’s focus on building quality new homes in a safe community and pricing it perfectly for the new post-Covid buyer who wants a year-round easy-living lifestyle,” said Bruehl Watermill Crossing features 34 luxurious townhomes designed by McDonough & Conroy Architects with townhomes ranging from 2,500 to 2,800 sq Watermill Crossing is being built by Racanelli Construction with landscape design by Araiys Design of Southampton Interior spaces were created by Mabley Handler Interior Design Each townhome features European custom Italian designed kitchens with Sub Zero/Bosch appliances Charming neighborhood character created with thoughtful landscaping and park-like grounds Additional amenities on the property include a centrally located clubhouse featuring a fitness room A patio surrounds an oversized pool and spa There are charging stations for electric vehicles Watermill Crossing is a new development at 66 Nowedonah Avenue Located between Southampton and Bridgehampton Water Mill was listed as the fourteenth most expensive ZIP code in the United States by Forbes in 2022 Water Mill is the only hamlet on Long Island with both a watermill and a windmill The 17th-century Grist Mill from which Water Mill takes its name is a short distance from the townhomes and is still maintained as a museum The mill is emblematic of this hamlet’s quaint character “There are not many new area developments and this is one of the most exciting real estate opportunities in the Hamptons,” said Andrew Saunders “We are delighted to see how well received these townhomes have been by local and international buyers.” “This new Hamptons development is creating quite a buzz around the country and the world as reaching buyers beyond the Hamptons has been frequent and reoccurring,” Wilson noted and added “We formed partnerships with brokers in Miami and Internationally and the interest has been awesome as the global buyer wants luxury community living.” For more information, visit: https://vimeo.com/740820545. Twin entrepreneurs and philanthropists Shabnam and Shay Safarzadeh officially launched… We’ve compiled a few dining options to celebrate Mother’s Day… The Southampton Playhouse presents the first annual Gary Cooper Festival,… Paumanok Vineyards in Aquebogue will hold a special dinner featuring… Keyes Art in Sag Harbor presents the exhibit “Migrations,” featuring… Arthur & Sons in Bridgehampton will reopen for its second… The “NOFO LIVE” podcast began as a passion project when… Hamptons Lifestyle Magazine with things to do in the Hamptons and the North Fork daughter of the late Charles and Cecelia (Deno) O'Leary Kathryn worked for Kimberly Clark and the Wisconsin Telephone Company Kathryn is survived by two children: Lynn (Dennis) Bruehl of Little Chute and Dennis (Betti) Delrow of California; three grandchildren: Dr and Devin Delrow; three step-grandchildren: Carla (Nate) Garvey and Emery Arthur; four great-grandchildren: Alex and Braeden Everson; a step-great-granddaughter: Shey There are also her dear friends: Berniece and Gerry Geenen and Ann Harter Kathryn was preceded in death by her parents her husbands Elder Lisch and Edward Delrow a funeral liturgy is being held this week at St with burial to follow at Highland Memorial Park SIGN UP FOR PURIST’S NEWSLETTER AND DIGITAL ISSUES It’s 8AM—AKA “dawn patrol”—on a picture-perfect weekday in East Hampton and Ed Bruehl sends out a message: “It’s firing at Georgica.” Mid-afternoon he receives a text: “It’s on at Ditch Plains.” The above communication speaks of optimum surf conditions at local beaches on the East End another message will be sent: “Mariah’s at Indian Wells.” Or The above signals a parent is at a certain beach “What I love about this local dad contingency is we’re all looking out for each other and looking out for each others’ kids,” says Bruehl “When conditions are wrong in East Hampton—based on the swell direction tides and wind—they can be right in Montauk,” says Bruehl over tea at Harbor Kitchen and Market in Sag Harbor greeting a local friend at the counter with a handshake and a pat on the back is a long-time educator who now runs her own educational program called Playful Learning Studio Bruehl honed his surfing skills in Malibu and Rincon He’s lived out east full time since the early 2000s surfers used more basic signals to communicate “My earliest recollection of a surf report was getting a thumbs-up or thumbs-down from cars driving home on Decker Canyon Road,” he recalls “This road took us to Ventura County Line or Staircase—my two favorite local breaks at the time.” from home—I think it cost a quarter.” Surfline is now a downloadable app that Bruehl and his fellow surf dads use every day “I check the Surfline Streaming cam at sunrise I know I’m going to surf that day,” he said Bruehl reports in on East Hampton and fellow Saunders brokers Scott Bradley weighs in on Amagansett (his wife is ‘Paddle Diva’ Gina Bradley) and Chris Coleman and his family are in Montauk near the 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România© 2025 trendir.com - All Rights Reserved Update at 9:30am 11/5/19: The Tuolumne County Sheriff’s Office reports that 38-year-old Health Bruehl has been found safe Tips were received after her picture was posted online yesterday No additional information is immediately available Original story posted at 2:15pm 11/4/19: Sonora CA — The Tuolumne County Sheriff’s Office is seeking leads that could help them find a person who has been unaccounted now for over two weeks who is from out of state but was last seen in the Jamestown area in mid-September she was visiting the area and staying with a friend While she was last believed to be meeting with a different friend in the Jamestown area she did not tell anyone who she was going to see or where she would be Anyone with any information regarding Heather’s whereabouts should contact the Tuolumne County Sheriff’s Office at 209 533-5815 the horror of what happened Tuesday in Rancho Tehama was still impossible for many residents to come to grips with as the small community of about 1,400 grieved and mourned for those killed and wounded in a mass shooting there many of whom know each other by their nicknames still can't get their minds around how someone could fire upon innocent victims "How can you do that?" asked 76-year-old Charles "Chuck" Bruehl who lives in a mobile home directly across the street from Rancho Tehama Elementary School said he began to cry after the reality of what occurred began to set in Tuesday night For some of those shot and wounded were children attending the  elementary school More: A school boy, a married couple among Rancho Tehama shooting victims More: Why do mass shooters even target children and strangers? have lived for six years across from the school They said they enjoy living in the small and tight-knit community ranging from larger residences homes to mobile homes It's described on its website as a “quiet private country community” 12 miles west of Interstate 5 between Red Bluff and Corning it was 86.3 percent white in 2010 and had a poverty rate of 43 percent Numerous marijuana grows dot the community Bruehl said he moved to the community from El Dorado County to be closer to his daughter due to its peace and quiet and low housing prices "I can't take the rat race," he said as he tried to explain the rural community's allure He brought his 2 acres that came with two trailers for $30,000 "It's very nice here and the school makes it special," he said noting he knows almost all the teachers there "Where are you going to go where it's not happening?" Wythe asked described by many of its residents as a tight-knit and family-friendly community is also one of privacy with "no trespassing" and "private property" signs on many of its properties "All the lots have closed gates and dogs," said 67-year-old Chick Sievers an elder at the Rancho Tehama Community Church More: Sheriff: Tehama shooter built his own illegal guns More: Gunman's mother says son was frustrated by feud the impact of the shooting has yet to be fully felt He said a candlelight vigil Wednesday night could help begin the healing process Although the shooting has left the town reeling its residents have the strength to overcome it who was inside his home when Kevin Neal opened fire at the school said he came outside and saw the gunman try to drive away which had been stolen earlier, had become tangled in the school's gate it had rammed down an unmarked patrol car quickly gave chase with a law enforcement officer firing a rifle as he leaned out of the vehicle "He (the officer) was leaning across the roof " of the unmarked car Although he did not see what happened afterward Tiffany and Brian Rodgers own and operate the Coffee Addiction and Deli on Stagecoach Road They said they enjoy the usually quiet and tranquil town "It's a wonderful place," Tiffany Rodgers said chickens and turkeys at their ranch-style home say residents help one another in times of need They moved to Rancho Tehama about seven years ago from Redding due to the crime there to raise their four children The low property prices were also a big factor More: Alleged gunman in Tuesday's rampage had history of violence More: Quick thinking by school's staff prevented more carnage GOWANDA — Do you remember where you were in 1981 The World Heritage Centre is at the forefront of the international community’s efforts to protect and preserve World Heritage partnerships for conservation Ensuring that World Heritage sites sustain their outstanding universal value is an increasingly challenging mission in today’s complex world where sites are vulnerable to the effects of uncontrolled urban development Our Partners Donate Take advantage of the search to browse through the World Heritage Centre information Augustusburg Castle (the sumptuous residence of the prince-archbishops of Cologne) and the Falkenlust hunting lodge (a small rural folly) are among the earliest examples of Rococo architecture in 18th-century Germany Dans le cadre idéal d'un paysage de jardins somptueuse résidence des princes-archevêques de Cologne sont parmi les premières manifestations du style rococo dans l'Allemagne du XVIIIe siècle يقع قصر أغسطسبرغ في إطار مثالي من الجمال ضمن مجموعة حدائق وهو مقر فخم لأمراء – أساقفة كولونيا ويُضاف إليه جناح فولكنلاست، وهو "شهوة" زراعية صغيرة شيّدت في الحقول، ليشكّل المبنيان أوائل براعم نمط الروكوكو في المانيا في القرن الثامن عشر 奥古斯塔斯堡周围风景优美，颇具田园风情，这里曾是科洛涅(Cologne)大主教奢华的住所，而法尔肯拉斯特古堡(the Falkenlust hunting lodge)则是一处狩猎场（小规模乡下活动）。这两个建筑都是18世纪德国洛可可风格最早的杰作。 роскошная резиденция кëльнских князей-архиепископов и охотничий замок Фалькенлуст расположены в идиллическом садовом ландшафте Эти здания относятся к самым ранним образцам архитектуры рококо в Германии XVIII в El palacio de Augustusburgo fue la suntuosa residencia de los arzobispos-príncipes de Colonia En medio de los espléndidos jardines que lo rodean se halla el pabellón de Falkenlust Ambas construcciones figuran entre las primeras obras arquitectónicas del arte rococó en la Alemania del siglo XVIII the sumptuous residence of the prince-archbishops of Cologne are among the earliest and best examples of 18-century Rococo architecture in Germany and directly linked to the great European architecture and art of unprecedented richness of the time planned and constructed this large residence at Brühl on the foundations of a medieval castle It consists of three wings built of brick with rough-cast rendering and has two adjoining orangeries one on the south side which includes an oratory while the other to the north houses various service buildings a bold and successful revamping of the lack-lustre construction of Schlaun and the hunting lodge of Falkenlust are one of the best examples of the Rococo style this international art of unprecedented richness the staircase of Balthasar Neumann – considered a work of creative genius – is a rapturous structure which unites a lively movement of marble and stucco and culminates in the astonishing frescoed ceiling of Carlo Carlone and the private apartments are organised in a hierarchy of effects of outstanding conception while the décor “bon enfant” of the new grand summer apartments with its faience tiles from the Low Countries The Castle of Falkenlust stands in its own small park It was built by François de Cuvilliés between 1729 and 1737 for Prince-Elector of Cologne to practise his favourite sport of falconry The main building has two floors and is built in the style of a country house in brick with a rough-cast rendering It is flanked by two rectangular single-storey buildings which originally housed the Prince Elector´s falcons and are now mainly used for exhibitions Falkenlust is a country house with symmetrical avant-corps an oval salon is conceived in the same language of improvisation and liberty François de Cuvilliés was known for in his work its walls faced with shells and concretions The large gardens of Augustusburg and Falkenlust pupil of Le Nôtre) proved more aware of landscape decor multiplying monumental ramps and symmetrical flowerbeds is a two-part embroidery-like parterre that includes four fountains and the Mirror Pool fed by a small cascade running from a circular basin with an impressive fountain Alleys lined with lime-trees flank the embroidery parterre and lead to triangular boscages The adjoining semi-circular park is enclosed by a ditch and a wall The main alley is crossed diagonally by a second pathway and leads south-east through the field to the Castle of Falkenlust nonetheless endeavours to create the randomness of a natural site Criterion (ii): Augustusburg and Falkenlust represent the first important creations of Rococo style in Germany they were a model in the majority of the princely courts Criterion (iv): The castles and gardens of Augustusburg and Falkenlust are the eminent example of the large princely residence of the 18th century The whole site comprising the Castle of Augustusburg contains all the elements necessary to express the Outstanding Universal Value The original overall design of the Castles has been maintained to an exceptional extent It has preserved its character as a Rococo electoral residence and has been spared any subsequent transformations due to continued use and function as a residence and museum The gardens of Augustusburg Castle are among the few in Europe to have been restored to their original plan They can be said to be the most authentic example of formal gardens in the French style outside of France The laws and regulations of the Federal Republic of Germany and the State of North Rhine-Westphalia guarantee the consistent protection of the Castles of Augustusburg and Falkenlust They are listed monuments according to § 2 and § 3 of the Act on the Protection and Conservation of Monuments in the State of North Rhine-Westphalia Building activities within and outside the property are regulated by § 9 (2) Protection Law Local Building Plans and regional Land Use Plans the property is protected by the Federal Nature Conservation Act The castles are opened to the public as museums and the sustainable use of the World Heritage site Construction and conservation issues are organized and managed in close co-operation with the Office for the Conservation of Monuments of the Rhineland Regional Council (LVR – Amt für Denkmalpflege) The management system consists of a set of maintenance and conservation measures which is checked yearly and updated when required by a Steering Committee; members are representatives of the State This article was published more than 13 years ago On first dipping into a cache of letters and papers all biographers must tremble with hope and fear about what might – or might not – be there That's what happened when Elisabeth Young-Bruehl began sorting through her mentor Hannah Arendt's documents on a little piece of paper was a note Arendt had written seven years earlier on first meeting Young-Bruehl: "Knows Greek and has the most amazing blue eyes." where she had been living since 2007 with her partner hoping to do a PhD dissertation in philosophy with her at The New School for Social Research (now The New School) in New York She was drawn to Arendt because "she had such an understanding of the world and suffering" and "how to live" in the face of genocide and totalitarianism A famous scholar and internationally recognized public intellectual And those she did take on had to undergo a rigorous interview After that initial conversation in which the applicant's intellectual attributes – a knowledge of ancient Greek – and an identifying physical trait – her blazing blue eyes – were both noted Arendt agreed to accept Young-Bruehl as a student By the time Young-Bruehl had finished her own dissertation "Freedom and Karl Jaspers's Philosophy," in 1974 Young-Bruehl found a job teaching philosophy at Wesleyan University in Connecticut Young-Bruehl was the only one of her students to have completed a doctorate Young-Bruehl found herself in the midst of a grieving circle of Arendt's emigré friends "They said somebody should write her biography," according to Dunbar who was the youngest in the room by about 30 years In an interview in the New York Times in 1982 Young-Bruehl said she wasn't "very taken" with the idea because she thought writing a biography was beyond her abilities the more it became apparent that if somebody didn't write down the stories that her friends had to tell stories I hadn't known because I met her late in her life the political activist and novelist ( The Group) clearly agreed She gave Young-Bruehl permission to consult the Arendt papers in the Library of Congress and in the German Literary Archive in Marbach started writing a biography of one of the most famous public intellectuals of the day won the inaugural Harcourt prize for biography for the way it engrossingly interwove the political theorist's life – including her youthful affair with Heidegger her development as a thinker and writer and her philosophical approach to institutionalized evil the book has been translated into several languages Meeting and studying with Arendt changed Young-Bruehl's life But it wasn't the only time a famous female intellectual caused her to shift direction Working on Arendt had quickened Young-Breuhl's interest in psychoanalysis While she was still teaching at Wesleyan and writing Arendt's biography she enrolled in clinical psychoanalytic training in New Haven and joined the Gardiner Seminar on Psychiatry and the Humanities at Yale an admirer of the newly finished Arendt biography asked Young-Bruehl if she would write Freud's life as well This time Young-Bruehl knew she could write a biography she didn't have a connection with the subject or her work Young-Bruehl described the Freud material – eight volumes of published papers as well as all of her correspondence – which had been lovingly tended by Freud's companion keyed precisely to the day-by-day-year-by-year living of her life." The youngest of Sigmund Freud's six children Anna Freud was the only one to develop an interest in her father's work and to make her own name – not only as an analyst and had sublimated her own sexual desires into caring for her famous father and the patients she treated in London at what is now called the Anna Freud Centre The Freud biography was published to acclaim in 1988 Young-Bruehl left her tenured position at Wesleyan and moved to Philadelphia teaching part-time at Haverford College to support herself while she continued her psychoanalytic training at the Philadelphia Association for Psychoanalysis she moved to New York and started a private practice as a psychoanalyst and psychotherapist sandwiched between an older brother and a younger sister was a golf pro – he had been on the American track and field team at the 1936 Berlin Olympics – and a marine who had served in the South Pacific during the Second World War an amateur actress and the "rock" of the family her mother married chemical engineer Ernie Sutton Young went to Sarah Lawrence College in New York State in the mid-1960s but dropped out in her sophomore year and headed to New York City to become a writer "It took me only about six months to realize that I was too young that I needed more education," she told The Boston Globe in 1988 Young completed her undergraduate studies at The New School Young-Bruehl came to Toronto to deliver a lecture on developmental dreaming Dunbar was on the committee that had invited her to speak and "the rest is history," she said Together they founded Caversham Productions a firm that produces psychoanalytic training materials "She was at the height of her power and so enthusiastic," said Dunbar mentioning the blog that Young-Bruehl had started "Who's Afraid of Social Democracy?" and the huge project she had undertaken as the general editor of an 11-volume series about the life and work of the British pediatrician and psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott psychoanalysis and doing academic work," said Dunbar "What comforts me is that these last few years were the happiest of her life." 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For more information on our commenting policies and how our community-based moderation works, please read our Community Guidelines and our Terms and Conditions Researchers have proved time and again that bad events pack a bigger psychological punch than good ones People fear losing the $50 in their pockets more than they relish happening on another fifty Being abandoned by a friend hurts more than the joy of making a new one Living near someone makes it more likely that you will become his enemy than his friend as psychologist Roy Baumeister has pointed out while the longevity of a marriage hinges more on its negative interactions (sarcasm criticism) than on its positive ones (affection Young-Bruehl's thesis is that there is systemic prejudice against children in the United States and that this bias – long endemic – has gained momentum over the past 40 years Adults use children to advance their own agendas "This generation of parents – my own generation now in their sixties – became in the 1970s deeply conflicted in relation to their children," she writes with progressive and regressive tendencies waging a constant battle." The result is an anti-child prejudice that must be described before it can be addressed Adult Anna eventually becomes Young-Bruehl's patient in psychoanalysis and the author relates her lurid tale as a chapter-long object lesson: This is how an entire generation treats its children and the experiences of other patients I was treating at the same time prompted me to think about how we deal with child abuse in the United States Was childism something like internalized racism or sexism?" our anti-child biases may not be overt but are always there lurking beneath the surface and malevolently skewing our actions "Where should a line between poor parenting and intentional abuse be drawn?" she asks provocatively a background that sheds some light on her lifelong interest in bigotry Her doctorate in philosophy was supervised by Hannah Arendt who coined the phrase "the banality of evil" to refer to the atrocities of the Holocaust I have had a long-standing clinical practice I was more likely to trust parents than to suspect them of crimes even baby boomers – have their children's best interests in mind and want to protect them from pain and harm A child or parent can become desperately ill and throw a family into chaos Or a trusted figure – a hockey coach or a priest – can violate the child's and the parents' trust But to point a finger at a generation with the claim that their unconscious biases have put their children at risk is both wrong-headed and physical and sexual abuse of American children has not increased since baby boomers became parents according to the National Child Abuse and Neglect Data System Disciplining children by hurting them is no longer acceptable it was common for parents and school principals to spank or strap a child surveys show that 90 per cent of the population approved of the practice if a school employee used a leather strap on a boomer's child Underpinning this progress is a mountain of legislation child welfare and protection laws adopted since the early seventies I agree with Young-Bruehl that it's not enough even one Shafia or Sheldon Kennedy case is one too many even if there's been huge progress since the seventies – surely a positive – when it comes to child well-being it's still ranked near the bottom among countries in the Organization for Economic Co-operation and Development Susan Pinker is a psychologist and Globe and Mail columnist whose last book Her next book is on the hidden impact of social bonds