County thanks Stitt for years of support; Stitt credits them for saving his life
As he stood on the gym floor looking up at the entire student body of the school that shaped his formative years
Jerry Mack Stitt couldn’t hold back his tears
That’s not too far out of the ordinary for the 1990 Dover High School graduate
Stitt had just been presented the Friends of Basketball Award for Region I from the Oklahoma Basketball Coaches Association
He was nominated by Dover boys coach Jared Reese
who also arranged for Wednesday’s assembly to present the honor
As Reese stated - and as a video played during the assembly proved - it wasn’t an award from Dover
So when Stitt began to address those students looking down on him
the tears rolled and the truth flowed: “Basketball saved my life from my drug addiction.”
••• Basketball and other sports helped Stitt get through high school
The youngest of Jerry and Recea Stitt’s three children
“It was a two-minute walk to the back door of the gym,” Stitt said
“Sports are what helped me get through high school because I had no direction on any career.” Still
he landed a good job with Temtrol in Okarche
But eventually a series of unfortunate events and poor decisions caused Stitt’s life to spiral out of control
uprooting him from the only town in which he’d ever lived
Stitt made the mistake of trying methamphetamine
The addiction gripped him and among the casualties was Stitt losing his job at Temtrol in 2001
jobless and hooked on a drug that doesn’t want to let go
when he was working a construction job in Ada
Tragedy struck when Sitt fell from an elevated work spot
Stitt was flown to Oklahoma City and spent several days in intensive care and more time in multiple rehabilitation centers
He suffered some shortterm memory loss and partial face paralysis
Surgery and physical therapy allowed him to mostly recover
he did suffer permanent hearing loss in one ear on top of the ever-present brain injury
the effects of which have lingered in one form or another for years
a neurological condition that causes outbursts of uncontrolled or inappropriate crying or laughing
“That didn’t match how I really felt,” Stitt said
God has 95 percent healed me from that hell
but to this day I sometimes have no filter with my emotions.”
Even though Stitt was clean from drugs at the time of his accident
but I was doing that job because I lost my job at Temtrol because of meth,” he said
The accident and its after effects pushed Stitt back into that addiction
••• Jerry Mack Stitt was doing his best to dig out of those depths in February and early March of 2015
He started keeping up with the Lomega girls basketball team
which had a talented freshman named Kenzi Lamer
Stitt knew the family well as several Lamers were rooted in Dover
“He was my idol when I was growing up watching him play for Dover,” Stitt said of Mike Lamer
So Stitt was drawn in by the Lady Raiders as they claimed the 2015 state championship
“I was one month sober the day they won it,” Stitt said
I drove home an hour later and I just got to town and my old drug dealer texted me.”
“And I relapsed,” Stitt said as he snapped his fingers
Stitt used the last of what he had on hand that night
I went to bed early and fell asleep instantly.”
was the start of Stitt’s new life…one free from drugs
“That was my first sober day,” he says now
“I was thankful I had one more chance to stop drugs,” he said
Something else was out there pulling him in an opposite direction
“I knew they were going to be good again,” Stitt said of Lomega
So he started going to their games at the beginning of the season
“They were so much fun to watch,” he recalled
Stitt found himself using his iPhone to shoot videos of Kenzi during the games and sending them to Mike
“But I’d get so many videos of other Lomega players
so I’d send them to their parents,” Stitt said
And so he became a fixture at Raider games at center court
Then came the process of putting the clips together and sending them out
Several found their way to Facebook and players and parents alike couldn’t wait for Jerry Mack’s next video drop as he followed the team to yet another state championship in 2016
but those hours watching and editing clips and sending to parents the next day really helped me my first four months of sobriety,” he said
that editing took Stitt’s mind away from drugs
“That’s when it made me realize I could…that’s there’s life outside of a drug,” he said
“And that’s why I say Kenzi’s Lomega team of 2015-16 helped saved my life.”
Stitt found himself at a lot of Hennessey events
He became a huge fan of the Kingfisher boys’ team during its historic run that began in 2017
There was still Lomega and of course his alma mater
He started following and covering - athletes throughout the county
Some of the players throughout that time stood out to Stitt
A very short list includes the likes of Maci Mendell
He went to school with or played against some of their parents
then I look at each ball player like a niece or a nephew,” he said
“That really helps me get into the games even more.”
There was the time in 2019 after Kingfisher won its second Class 4A state championship in three years
“He just started talking to me for a few minutes,” Stitt recalled
“He just stopped and took the time to talk to me like he knew me
Stitt made a post on Facebook about being five years sober
“Things like that give me a connection to the players and teams,” he said
“It makes me really feel the game in my chest.”
••• Stitt’s videos also turned into post-game recaps
they wanted to know what he’d have to say about it later
sometimes he struggled to control his emotions and outbursts
He might be critical loudly at times - of coaches or officials
But he was also always apologetic and always maintained good relationships with coaches and officials alike throughout the county
One thing he was never critical of was a player
He kept his comments about county kids positive
And it wasn’t always easy on him to be there
Stitt admittedly tired of shooting and editing the videos
He also grew weary of driving to games by himself and even sitting by himself once at the gym
He stated as such on social media multiple times and despite the support
The Dover teams of 2023-24 revived him a bit
His alma mater had returned not only to respectability
The girls made the state tournament for the first time since 2007
The boys team won more than 20 games and reached area for the first time in a decade
he attended at least 18 of Dover’s games this season
Reese saw Stitt in the stands during those years of the Kingfisher run from 2017 through 2023
He saw him some more in 2023-24 with the Dover squads
Reese had kept up with Stitt’s support of the county schools over the years and saw what it meant to people throughout the various school districts
So when it came time to nominate someone for the OBCA’s Friends of Basketball Award
“It celebrates someone who positively affects basketball in your district,” Reese said
“And Jerry Mack for years has attended games and has greatly influenced many athletes in the area.”
When word came down that Reese’s nomination of Stitt had resulted in the award
he wanted to make sure the appreciation of everyone - not just Dover - was expressed
He set up the Wednesday assembly with the entirety of the Dover enrollment to attend
former players and even basketball officials to attend
Reese compiled a series of recorded videos of just a few of the people who couldn’t be there
but wanted to congratulate Stitt for his award
They included Darcy Roberts and coach Kevin Lewallen from Lomega; Seth Simunek and Superintendent Jason Sternberger from Hennessey; Dale girls coach Eric Smith
a former coach at Dover; former KHS players Drake Friesen
Xavier Ridenour and Jett Sternberger; local officials Kent Weems and Brandon Friesen
There were also several clips from those in Dover like coaches Jared Reese
Matt Peck and Chris Combs; current athletes Ashley Gamez
Casen Buck and Colton Burns; and Superintendent Jay Wood
Videos also included fellow KHS and Dover “superfan” Clint Combs as well as Dover alum Dominic Bell
the messages from all were the same: “There is no one more deserving
Thank you for all you’ve done for Kingfisher County.”
Stitt had inspired each of them - and countless others in one form or another
The years of following and recognizing county athletes
The hundreds and hundreds of hours spent recording and editing videos
The hundreds - if not thousands - of Facebook posts bringing attention to the kids he loved
The cheers from the crowd and the video proved that
The tears started again when Stitt took the award from Reese and hugged him
They showed up yet again when he addressed the crowd
“(My addiction) took a lot of years away from me,” he said
“So the kids that I support helped me more than I could ever help or acknowledge them.”
he’s been sober for more than eight years and six months...and counting
Stitt insisted he wasn’t worthy of the award
I’ve gotten loud with refs before…I’ve gotten loud with Coach Reese...” which elicited a laugh
DHS Principal Nathan Nance disagreed with Stitt
“Your testimony is an inspiration to all of us,” he said
“You may have gotten loud with refs or coaches
but you’ve never said a negative thing about a kid
You’re always for the kids and for the students and that’s what this award is about.”
Reese’s motivation for the assembly was two-fold
he’s also the elementary principal and had a message for those students
“The main reason I wanted all my elementary students at this assembly today was to witness the impact that positive words and building up others on social media can have and can truly make someone feel better about themselves,” Reese said
“Everyone loves themselves and is born selfish
but truly loving others is genuinely a difficult gift to possess and Jerry Mack has it
Those who possess that gift have the tendency to change schools
“They also tend to help develop that positive trait in others.”
Reese said the video compilation was proof
“These kids will remember forever the person who believed in them and hopefully they will pass on that trait later in life as well,” he said
his drug addiction and how basketball helped pull him away from his darkest of days
He knows he’s repeating himself when he sends out that message
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